Finances in the Face of Loss
Many women feel completely lost following a divorce or
death of a husband. Besides the overwhelming emotions that
such an event can produce, often it is the husband that
handles the finances of the family. Anyone who has taken a
job that has recently been vacated by someone else can
understand the likely confusion that ensues as one must
attempt to make sense of the records/system left behind by
others. Fortunately, there are several resources that can
assist women in such situations.
InCharge's debt management counselors are very capable
of providing budgetary assistance and other general advice
to establish sound financial practices. If a matter of a
more delicate nature presents itself, and our counselors
are unable to respond (such as a question relating to
taxes), a referral can be made, instantly, through our
Directory of Social Service Providers to an agency that
can help.
One would do well to remember, too, that creditors are not
always people/companies that are devoid of compassion.
Many of them understand about hardship situations, as they
are a painfully obvious reality for everyone at times.
Creditors are frequently willing to make adjustments to
payment schedules if they receive a telephone call before
a payment is due, explaining the hardship, and asking for
whatever assistance is available.
Just having endured the hardship of a divorce or death of
spouse, formulating a budget to live within can seem like
a daunting experience. However, if one sets aside some
quiet time and realistically plans for one's needs, a
budget can be a comfort in some of the rougher times
ahead!